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The 10 Most Read Articles on YourPositiveOasis.com

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The 10 Most Read Articles on YourPositiveOasis.com

Here at YourPositiveOasis.com, I want you to become the very best version of yourself, and help you to reach your full potential. I love to share with you lifestyle tips, positive articles and interesting quizzes to make you think and take more positive action. I also really enjoy putting together for you collections of quotes that I hope will motivate and inspire you.

YourPositiveOasis.com was started in January 2016, and it has been a very exciting year. In September, this website won the Littlewoods Ireland Blog of the year in the Health and Wellness category. My two Facebook Pages Your Positive Oasis and Motivational Daily Quotes have each over 230,000 wonderful Fans from all over the world.

I have a very strong feeling that 2017 is going to be an amazing year. A year full of change, growth and exciting personal discovery. I will strive to do my very best to share with you Blog posts, Quizzes and Quotes as often as possible. I have a few really exciting plans for the future. The success of this website is down to you! Every post that you read and share helps me to reach a bigger audience. Thank you so much for all of your support over the last 12 months. I really appreciate it, and I am very grateful to you.
I really hope that you are as excited about the future as I am.

These are the 10 most popular articles from YourPositiveOasis.com of 2016:

8 Signs The Law of Attraction Is Working For You

articlesI am sure that you have heard of the “Law of Attraction”? It suggests that by focusing on positive or negative things you can bring those things into your life. Simply put, it says like attracts like in life. It is also based upon the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from “pure energy”, and the belief that like energy attracts like energy. Research with brain imaging done by Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Srini Pillay has found that this is a real phenomenon.

15 Life Lessons From The Dalai Lama

articlesThe Dalai Lama has spent his entire life sharing his positive and compassionate beliefs with the world. He is a champion for peace, happiness and personal enlightenment. A Nobel Prize winner, and best selling author, his quotes have motivated and inspired a generation. I am delighted to share with you these 15 Life lessons from his Holiness The Dalai Lama. Please take a few moments out of your busy day today and enjoy the kindness, love, and compassion contained in these wonderful messages.

6 Toxic Types of People You Should Keep Out of Your Life

articlesYou probably know a few toxic people in your life right now. They might work with you in the office, some of them might be in your current circle of friends, you might live with one of them, heh, you might be one of them yourself! Toxic people can be mentally and physically exhausting to be around, and they can have a massive negative impact on your forward momentum. The distractions, stress and negativity that toxic people can bring into your life only act as unnecessary obstacles, so it is best to avoid them.

8 Habits Of Highly Confident People

articlesConfidence is not merely an organizational term or a state of mind; it is your attire, your personality, and your whole persona. It is not an exclusive trait just for celebrities, and successful business people. Anyone can be more confident, you, me or your next door neighbor. Do you realize how many wonderful things that you let go of and let slip through your hands only by not being more confident?

10 Laws Of Karma That Will Change Your Life

The 10 Most Read Articles on YourPositiveOasis.com

We are all very familiar with the saying “Karma is a b***h”. Someone does us wrong and that’s usually one of the first things that comes out of our mouths followed sometimes by a few colorful words. The clear cut definition of Karma for those of us who are still a tad unclear: any action you take will decide your fate either in this life or the next. Do good and good will come to you, do bad and well, you get it.

9 Jim Rohn Quotes That Can Change Your Life.

articlesI am so excited to share with you the wonderful words of wisdom from personal development legend Jim Rohn that changed my life, and let you know how these powerful quotes can change your life too. We are very fortunate to live at a time when we do not have to travel to the other side of the world to see a great personal development trainer or mentor. We have at our fingertips all the resources that we need to change our lives by way of books, videos, eBooks and audio programs. But remember, all the wonderful information in the world will never help us if we do not read, listen or watch this material and then put that knowledge into our daily habits.

5 Simple Rules To Be Happy from a 92 Year Old

articlesThe 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady, gets fully dressed each morning by eight o’clock, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home. Her husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready.

7 Amazing Reasons Every House Should Have A Salt Lamp

articlesWhat can be easily mistaken for a beautiful glowing ornament in more and more houses these days are in fact Himalayan salt lamps. These lamps are made from large pieces of pure Himalayan Salt with a small bulb or candle placed inside. They are usually sold as solid pieces of salt or decorative baskets filled with large crystals of salt. But these are no ordinary lamps.

8 Signs Your Guardian Angel is With You!

The 10 Most Read Articles on YourPositiveOasis.comPeople have beliefs in many different things – some people call on the universe for guidance and help, while others believe in good karma when it comes to positive things coming their way. Others believe in a higher spiritual being to guide them in their day to day lives and many people believe in the presence of guardian angels. Most people who believe in guardian angels will say that they have one particular guardian angel watching over them.

7 Easy Ways To Start Liking Yourself More.

articlesWhen you start liking yourself you are not being narcissistic, instead you simply like who you are, and the person you are striving to become. Also, by liking yourself you accept what an amazing and unique individual that you are. When you start liking yourself it will help to make important life choices easier, because you will trust yourself and your own judgments. As you learn and practice to like yourself more, you will empower yourself to become more confident and comfortable with the person you are.

 

Once again, thank you for all of your support throughout 2016. I look forward to our exciting journey together in 2017 and beyond.

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6 Things To Remember When You Think That You’re Not Good Enough

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6 Things To Remember When You Think That You’re Not Good Enough

Have you ever had moments where you feel completely inadequate? Maybe a specific situation comes up and you think there is no way that you would ever be good enough to do what is needed. Or, maybe you feel that way all the time and you can’t seem to get past it.

Thinking that you are not good enough and having low self-esteem tend to go hand-in-hand, but they are slightly different.

Thankfully, you can work on both of them by changing your thinking habits and banishing some of that negative self-talk from your mindset. Whether you think you are not good enough in certain situations or you have a hard time believing that you are good enough for almost anything, it doesn’t have to be that way forever.

Let’s look at a few things you should always keep in mind when those thoughts come in, and how you can start to convince yourself of your true worth.

1. You Are Not Alone

Thinking that you are not good enough can cause a lonely existence. You might not want to put your burdens on others, so you don’t talk about it. You might also think that everyone else is perfectly happy with who they are, and are confident in everything that they do.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

The reality is, you never know what other people are fully thinking/feeling. What you can count on, though, is that there are so many others who feel just like you, and are constantly wondering if they are “enough”. Knowing that you are not alone can help you to work through your feelings without feeling so isolated.

2. You Have Your Own Skills

A common reason why people tend to think they are not good enough is because they don’t have a specific talent or skill that someone else has. But you probably have something that person doesn’t, too.

Everyone has their own abilities and things that make them unique. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, keep your mind on your talents and what makes you special.

“If you want to make a permanent change, stop focusing on the size of your problems and start focusing on the size of you!” – T. Harv Eker

3. You Can’t Be Perfect

Perfection is a fruitless thing to chase. Many people who question their self-worth do so because they are perfectionists.

But, if you set such a high standard for yourself, you will always be disappointed. Perfection doesn’t exist, and while you can strive to be your best, it is important to understand human error and limits. That doesn’t mean the things you do are some how “less” than great. But, striving for perfection is something that can make you feel inadequate.

4. You Are Worthy of Loving Yourself

Love tends to be the answer for so many things, including any pain or turmoil that you might be going through. Thinking that you are not good enough is an easy way to cause yourself sadness and pain. Those thoughts can quickly snowball and you might start to think about more negative things about yourself.

Instead of fueling those negative thoughts, choose love. Love is like a permanent band-aid for the pain that you are going through. It is a great way to comfort yourself, provide reassurance, and get a clearer picture of who you really are and all of the wonderful things that you can offer the world. By choosing self-love, you can start to see yourself in a more positive light, and push those negative thoughts away.

“We must fall in love with ourselves. I don’t like myself. I’m crazy about myself.” – Mae West

5. Mistakes Can Be a Good Thing

Do you ever find yourself feeling especially inadequate when you “fail”? While that is not uncommon, that word should really be removed from your vocabulary.

Everyone “fails” at times, because again, perfection is not attainable. When you start to consider anything less than perfection to be a failure, it is easy to beat yourself up and think that you will never amount to the things that you truly want.

But, when you start to view your failures and mistakes as good things and stepping stones, you can completely shift your perspective and realize that not only are you good enough, but you are also resilient and strong. Some of the biggest “failures” in history went on to be the most successful people because they learned from their mistakes. They looked at the things that went wrong and considered how they could change them.

It is important to use your mistakes as a way to learn and grow. When you are able to do that, you will find a greater sense of fulfillment when things finally come together and you get it “right”.

“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordon

6. Gratitude Goes a Long Way

It might not always feel easy to accept and be grateful for who you are. But, it is incredibly important. Instead of thinking about the things you don’t have or areas where you are not “good enough”, choose to actively think about and pursue the positive. Focus on what you are grateful for. The more that you do that, the easier it will be to banish those thoughts of doubt and insecurity. I like to start every day by using my journal and begin by writing down three things that I am grateful for.

“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” — Melody Beattie

Once you really start to think about it, you will find that you have more to be grateful for than you may have initially realized, and that way of thinking can help you to establish healthier, more positive thoughts about yourself that will last a lifetime.

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50 Thought Provoking Existential Questions

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50 Thought Provoking Existential Questions

What are existential questions?

Existential questions are usually deep, philosophical questions that question just that — our very existence.

They can be great conversation starters and they can also sometimes make for a passionate discussion. The following existential questions can be a great way to get to know someone better and perhaps even learn new things about yourself.

The word existential comes from the Latin word “existentia”, which means to exist. Existential questions challenge our way of thinking, our beliefs and our perspective.

Is there a right or wrong answer to an existential question? Perhaps not, as each question usually just asks more questions.

I have put together the following list of thought provoking existential questions so that you can perhaps start an internal conversation with yourself or start an interesting debate with your friends.

50 Thought Provoking Existential Questions

 

1. Are there limits to human creativity?

2. What makes something beautiful?

3. How do we know if we’re doing the right thing?

4. Who am I?

5. What is one thing that every human should get to experience in their life?

6. Do you believe in a power greater than humanity?

7. Are we given enough time?

8. Is privacy a right?

9. What is the best way for a person to attain happiness?

10. Are we alone in the universe?

11. What is love?

12. How would you define genius?

13. What do you think your purpose is?

14. If babies are considered innocent, when do people cease to be innocent?

15. Is it better to expand your knowledge or to deepen it?

16. Why do you think we are here?

17. How important is ‘play’ in living a healthy and fulfilling life?

18. Do you have a right to be happy, or should you earn it?

19. What happens when I die?

20. What worries me the most about the future?

21. What is a person? Is it the mind, or the body?

22. Would the world be a better place if all leaders were women? If you answered yes, why?

23. What activity have I done that has made me feel the most alive?

24. Does truth exist without evidence?

25. If I had to instill one piece of advice in a newborn baby’s mind, what advice would I give?

26. Does a person have a soul? If so, where is it?

27. Is intelligence or wisdom more useful?

28. Is it more important to love or be loved?

29. What would make the world a better place?

30. How should we measure our lives? In years? In moments? In accomplishments? Something else?

31. What is the difference between living and simply existing?

32. If you died today, would you be satisfied with the life you’ve lived?

33. What advice would you tell your younger self?

34. Which is worse: failing or never trying?

35. Is a minimum wage a good idea? What about a maximum wage?

36. What is the most important goal every person should have?

37. Can anything ever really be considered ‘true’ or is everything subjective?

38. Is the world a better place with humans in it?

39. If extra-terrestrial life was discovered, how do you think humanity would react?

40. Is happiness just a mixture of chemicals circulating through our bodies?

41. Where do you think we go when we die?

42. Have I done anything lately worth remembering?

43. Can you ever have full control over your own life?

44. How do you know that you are not dreaming right now?

45. Is one lifetime enough?

46. What matters most in my life?

47. Is a person ever truly evil? If so, are they born that way?

48. What is the meaning of life?

49. Is humanity going in the right or wrong direction?

50. What does it mean to live a good life?

I hope that you enjoyed these thought provoking existential questions. I hope that they perhaps made you think about your beliefs, yourself and the world around you (the bigger picture). If you discuss these questions with a friend, remember, there is probably no right and wrong answers, usually just a matter of opinion.

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30 Life Lessons That I Would Tell My Younger Self

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30 Life Lessons That I Would Tell My Younger Self

I clearly remember when I was 18, then 25 and in then what seems like a flash, I have recently celebrated by 50th birthday. While some people might dread the thoughts of hitting such a milestone. (more…)

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