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8 Things You Need To Stop Doing To Be Successful

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8 Things You Need To Stop Doing To Be Successful

Success can mean different things to different people. We all have different values, goals and dreams for the future. What is most important, is what success means to you. Not what your boss thinks, or your friends, or your neighbors, or even your family members. Yes, getting positive input from others outlining what success means for them is a good thing as none of us have all of the right answers.

At the end of the day, the best definition of success is the one that you give to it. In my opinion, success is having a healthy balance of a number of things, such as my level of personal health, my on going personal development, my personal happiness, my contribution to society, my personal relationship, traveling and experiencing new things and my financial health.

I have found that the following 8 things can have a negative effect and can hold most people back from achieving success in their lives.

1. Hanging Around Negative People

Did you ever speak to a person only to feel totally drained afterwards? Do you know anyone who has never a positive thing to say about anyone? These people can leave you feeling drained both mentally and physically. If you cannot avoid these negative people altogether, limit the amount of time that you spend with them. These people enjoy spreading negativity, bad news and gossip. You don’t need this in your life. Instead, surround yourself with positive minded people who speak well of others and have similar goals and dreams as you. Connect with people who push you and want to see you succeed.

2. Not Exercising

We all know by now the many wonderful benefits that exercise has on both our body and our mind. Regular exercise will have you looking better and feeling great about yourself and you will find that you will have more energy. Start off with 30 minutes of light exercise a few times a week and you will start to reap the positive rewards in no time. Exercise doesn’t have to be torture or feel like a chore. Find a type of exercise that you will enjoy and have fun doing; you could take dance lessons, join your local Yoga studio or set up a small exercise area at home.

3. Stop Using Your Smartphone

Smartphones are a wonderful invention. They are an organizer, a communication device, a music player, they allow you to network with people from all over the world, you can use them to take photographs of memories from your Summer vacation and you can use them to search for information on any subject in seconds. I think we can all agree that smartphone use has got out of hand. Dinner tables are starting to resemble phone stores. People are constantly checking Facebook updates, Tweets and the latest Pins during a conversation. Make the conscious habit to limit your daily usage of your smartphone. Put it out of reach when you come hone. Don’t use your smartphone at the dining table or during a conversation. Pay more attention to what is going on around you and start enjoying good conversation.

4. Not Planning Your Day

Do you wake up every morning with just enough time to take a shower, get dressed and have a quick cup of coffee before running out the door? Do you press the snooze button to get another 5 minutes of rest? Do you wake up dreading the thoughts of another day? This was me a few years ago. This all changed when I started using a journal ever morning. When I started journaling, I began to feel excited each day reading my list of goals. I planned essential tasks for each day to keep me on track with my goals, and I also wrote down what I was grateful for every day. I spend no more than five minutes journaling in the morning, but it has helped to change my life in many ways. Waking up with gratitude, feeling motivated by your goals and planning a road map to get you were you want to be is a fantastic way to start each day.

5. Watching Too Much TV

According to Statista, in 2016 the average American watched over 270 minutes of television a day. This equates to over 31 hours a week! Soap operas, talent shows, reality TV, catching up on box sets, it is easy to see how the time can go by. I enjoy watching a good documentary or movie like anyone else, but I limit the amount of time that I spend watching TV. If I find myself channel hopping, I just switch the TV off and put some music on and read a book or watch something educational online. Try to limit the amount of time that you spend watching TV, start reading again, listen to music or call a friend or family member.

6. Stop Ignoring Your Goals

Throughout our lives we have always had goals. From making the team in school, getting good grades in college, what career we wanted to have, and perhaps what type of life we wanted to live in the future. Goals excite us and push us to grow and change as a person. Have goals that give you reasons to take action and strive everyday to become a better person. Stop ignoring your goals; get passionate about life and about your future. Write down a list of your short, medium and long-term goals and plan a road map to achieve them.

7. Stop Giving Up

Most of are guilty of this one. Have you ever started an exercise program only to give up after a few days or weeks? Have you tried to eat a healthy diet only to slip back to your old ways? Have you ever made a New Years resolution only to give up a few days later? If you are going to exercise, improve your diet, read more, learn a skill, start a hobby give yourself enough reasons why you want to start this habit. Make the habit as enjoyable as possible and organize the time needed each week to do your new habit. Use your daily journal to keep you on track in a positive way. Stop giving up! Start living life and make the most of your time. Get passionate about YOU!

8. Stop Living In The Past

The person who you were 5 or 10 years ago was probably a different person than who you are now. Our values can change over time, as well as sometimes our friends and our goals for the future. If you have made mistakes in the past, join the club, we all have. None of us are perfect. The thing is to acknowledge and learn from past mistakes.

Remember, you are NOT defined by your past. What is most important is the person who you are today. Start living in the now and make every day count. Now is the perfect time to turn the page and start writing a new chapter in your life.

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6 Reasons Why You Should Create A Bucket List

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Reasons Why You Should Create A Bucket List

The term ‘bucket list’ has become quite popular in recent years. It has been used in pop culture references and as a casual topic of conversation when someone wants to do something. Chances are, you have heard someone say, “Oh, that’s on my bucket list!” But, a bucket list is more than just a fantasy, an out of reach dream or an excuse to say that you want to do many things, only to never follow through on them.

There are actually many benefits to creating a bucket list, if you just put in the time, the thought and the dedication into it. Making a bucket list is a perfect way to set your life goals and to stay focused on making them a reality. Still not 100% convinced? Let’s take a look at six reasons why you really should create a bucket list. Maybe, by the end of this article, you will be ready to put together one of your very own.

1. It Gives You a Purpose

While putting together a bucket list won’t tell you what the meaning of your life is, it can help to give you a purpose to your life. A bucket list should be more about the major goals that you have for yourself, rather than a bunch of fun little things that you might want to do. A bucket list gives you something to get out of life and allows you to stay focused while you are doing it.

Have you ever been bored, wondering what you’re going to do this weekend to fill up your free time? A bucket list can give you that answer, encouraging you to always work towards the things that you truly want to do and experience in life.

2. It Brings Your Goals to Life

As stated above, a bucket list should be about exciting goals that you have for yourself. But, it is also an opportunity to hone in on those goals. Many people have ambitions and even make goals or resolutions for themselves each year only to be forgotten a few days later. But, when you have a specific list of goals written down, it can help to make you more motivated and focused to achieve them.

Goals are incredibly important to have, and the fact that your bucket list can make those goals clearer and more tangible is really important.

3. You Will Create Lasting Memories

Memories are one of life’s greatest treasures. As you start to accomplish the things on your bucket list, you will also be making wonderful memories each time. Since you are doing the things you really want to do, those memories will bring you comfort, a sense of achievement and give you something positive to look back on and share with others.

Bucket list Create Lasting Memories

4. It Will Pull You Forward

Have you ever been in a “funk” in life, or maybe you have had bouts of feeling down or depressed that have kept you from doing the things you typically enjoy? No one wants to stay in that kind of mindset for long. Because a bucket list can help to give you a sense of purpose, it can also give you the motivation to pull yourself out of a funk. It can call you to do something new, something different, or something that even challenges you. Sometimes, that’s all a person needs to be pulled out of a tired or depressed state.

Additionally, doing something on your bucket list will help to distract you for a while. That can be a great solution for someone who has anxiety or tends to focus too much on the negative things in life. Sometimes, a distraction can be a welcomed reprieve.

5. You Will Experience Life-Long Learning

When you commit yourself to having new experiences, you are also committing yourself to learning something new. So many people think that learning stops when you finish school, but you can learn so much more simply by living and trying more new things throughout your life. People who embrace this type of lifestyle are called “lifelong learners”. The reality is this; you will never be able to learn everything there is to know. But, because all of us have such a short time on this planet to figure things out, the more experiences we participate in, the more that we will learn and grow. Not only can a bucket list help you to learn things about different cultures, skills, situations, people and personalities.

It can also help you to learn more about yourself. Closing your mind off to the idea of lifelong learning will cause you to become stagnant with your thoughts and your growth. As a human being, you should have a desire to continue to grow and achieve as much as you possibly can throughout your life. Working through your bucket list can help you to achieve that.

Bucket List For Life long Learning

6. You Will Never Run Out of Things to Do

If you sit down to make a bucket list, you might write down anywhere from 10-100 things that you really want to do. But, it doesn’t have to stop there. Chances are, as you start to work through some of the things on your list, you will come up with more ideas.

Experiencing new things, and even challenging things, is a great way to get inspired and motivated to continue on that trend. A bucket list can truly be never-ending as you come up with more exciting new ideas and goals for yourself.

Building Your Bucket List and Bettering Your Life

There are so many additional reasons why you should create a bucket list for yourself. Remember, a bucket list is a very personal thing, and the experiences you put on the list should be things that you truly want to do or accomplish. Don’t make them  so unrealistic that you will never plan on committing to. Instead, promise yourself that you will immerse yourself in those experiences.

A bucket list might be something you create to accomplish things before you pass on, but in creating one and diving into new experiences, there is a good chance you will feel more alive than ever!

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8 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Every Day

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8 Ways to Take Care of Yourself Every Day

Self-care is a term that gets thrown around a lot lately, to the point where it’s easy to ignore or blow it off as some kind of “buzz word”. But, it’s so much more than that, and when you are willing to take self-care seriously, you might just start to see how much easier it will be to get through each day. (more…)

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The Top 8 Most Important Things in Life

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The Top 8 Most Important Things in Life

It is easy for people to speculate and debate about the most important things in life. You have probably heard that “the best things in life are free” or that “love is all you need”, but what about what are the most important? What do you really need in this life in order to find contentment and fulfillment? (more…)

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