On December 3rd, get ready to harness the wonderful power of the supermoon with this handy guide. We are going to cover what the supermoon is, why it is so special and how to make the most of this amazing natural phenomenon…
What is a Supermoon?
A supermoon is a new or full moon that is closer to Earth than normal. It is referred to as a ‘supermoon’ due to the fact that it appears bigger and brighter than usual. The moon looks bigger as it is almost as close to Earth as it’s orbit will allow. In astrological terms, this is called a ‘perigee’ – meaning ‘near to the Earth’.
This supermoon in December is also called a ‘Cold Moon’ due to the chilly weather that this month brings. Each moon has a different (non-astrological) name, which is normally relevant to the season and what it brings with it.
A normal full moon occurs every 29.5 days, as it is fully lit by the sun’s rays. The moon normally orbits Earth from a distance of between 222,000 and 252,000 miles, bearing in mind that the orbit is elliptical. During a supermoon, its orbit is at the closer end of the scale, so it is only around 230,000 miles away. This results in it appearing much brighter and bigger – to the human eye, it looks around 14% larger and 30% brighter than usual.
How Often Does a Supermoon Occur?
The moon must be at a certain point on its orbit around Earth in order to appear so huge. It must also be either in its new or full stage in order to be classed as a supermoon.
There is some speculation around what determines a supermoon, but most definitions suggest that they are fairly rare – occurring once every 14 full moons. Full moons occur once every 29.5 days, which puts around 400 days between each supermoon, making this a pretty big event by my standards. Either way, this December’s supermoon is set to be incredible…
What is so Special About This Supermoon?
Well, for one thing, it is relatively rare! Full moons are spectacular in their own right, and supermoons are even more stunning. These events happen once every 400 days, so with over a year in-between them. There is a lot of powerful energy to harness during supermoon occurrences, making them incredible events worldwide.
What Does the Supermoon Do?
It affects, as always, the tides due to differential gravity. The difference may not be hugely noticeable, but it has been scientifically proven that the force of the tides is stronger during a supermoon. These tides are known as ‘perigean tides’ due to the close proximity of the moon to the Earth.
Many people also believe that the moon has a huge effect on our lives and well being. The supermoon is said to hold a huge amount of power and can cause some pretty big personal shifts! Many people report feeling differently throughout the different moon phases, and especially during supermoons. Our bodies are made up of around 70% water, so it is possible that our ‘internal tides’ and balance will be affected. Let’s put science aside for a second and see what the next supermoon has to offer us, spiritually-speaking…
What Spiritual Benefits Are There to a Supermoon?
The full moon has been cited throughout history as a source of positive and powerful energy. Many people choose to bask in the light of the full moon, and there are various rituals people carry out in order to harness the power of the moon. People believe that the increased illumination that comes with a full moon is reflected in our souls – we are full of fresh light and positivity. Continuing with that line of thinking, the supermoon must bring a whole big heap of these amazing energies.
Fill your body with new light and get ready to work on self-love and energy healing. Emotions tend to run high during full moons, making it the ideal time to really get in touch with your inner-self. Allow anything that does not serve you to fall from your life. Full and supermoons are the perfect opportunity to let go of any negative energy and experiences, and look to a brighter future – quite literally!
Moon-Bathe and Let That Sh*t Go!
Moonlight is also believed to purify our bodies. Take a cleansing ‘moon bath’ and soak up the rays of this natural wonder. The idea behind this is to bask in light and allow our chakras to realign. Keep an open mind, be patient and revel in what the moon has to offer you. For a wonderful Moon bath, I recommend adding some Himalayan salts to a nice warm bath. You can also add some of your favorite essential oils to enhance your experience. After a wonderful moon bath you will feel relaxed, rejuvenated and totally energized.
Set Yourself Goals
Supermoons also offer an amazing chance to plan ahead. This is a great time to reflect on where you are in your life and what you hope to achieve in the future. Many people use this special time to journal and set themselves goals. The moon’s energy is believed to help these dreams and wishes manifest. Be as imaginative as you like! The energy from the supermoon encourages creativity and exploration, so find the fun in setting serious goals.
Soak up Some Feminine Energy
This supermoon is all about feminine energy! The moon is believed to be a strong source of feminine strength, so the supermoon is an exaggerated version of this. This is especially important for women, but men should feel comfortable engaging with their feminine side, too. Ladies, make the most of this beautiful lunar event – bathe in the moonlight, chant, have a smudging ritual, gather in groups of powerful goddesses and harness this power. Women’s strength and spirituality is so often dismissed, but now is our time!
Charge Your Crystals
If you are already into crystals, or if you are still learning about their wondrous powers, now is the time to charge them. By laying your crystals out in the light of a supermoon, you allow them to soak up all the positivity, creativity and liberation that will be flooding down upon us. You can also set out any important jewelry or talismans. Many people also choose to leave their drinking water out in the moonlight. You can then mix this with herbs for a powerful drink, or add it little by little to your drinks over the next few weeks.
Do What Feels Right
However you choose to embrace this supermoon, enjoy it. The energies being released are full of positivity and are very powerful. Now is a time to reconnect with yourself and align your mind, body and spirit. This may feel emotional, as lots of energies will be released. Letting go of things is the best way to move forward, and this year’s super full moon gives you the perfect opportunity to do just that.
Do whatever feels good for you – this supermoon is all about empowerment, creativity and aspiration, so channel that however you like.
If you’re still not convinced by the spirituality of these events, don’t worry. You don’t need to journal, meditate or set out any crystals if that’s not your thing.
Simply have an open mind and an open heart, and be prepared for them to be filled with amazing energies.
5 Ways To Know Your Self Worth
Focusing on your sense of “self” is very important in so many different ways. When you think about it, you are probably surrounded by the word “self” each day more than you realize. From self-care, self-esteem and self-belief to self-confidence, self-respect and self-worth, people are constantly trying to find ways to better themselves in different areas of their lives.
If you ask most people if they know their self-worth, they will probably be quick to say yes. But, if you took that question further and asked them how they know it, you will likely be met with some hesitation. The reality is, most people think they know about self-worth, but do not fully understand what it is or how it differs from other areas of “self”.
So, how can you truly know your self-worth? What can you do to increase it? What are your strengths, gifts and abilities? Let’s take a look at a few ways to have a better understanding of what really is your self-worth.
1. Don’t Judge Your Own Emotions
You can boost your sense of self-worth by accepting your thoughts and feelings. You might not always like them, and you might find yourself at odds with them from time to time. But, whatever thoughts and emotions come into your head, let them in. Then, you can work through them effectively. Emotions demand to be felt. It is how you respond to them that matters. Don’t ignore them and limit your true value. Embrace the wonderful unique person who you are.
Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. – Robert Tew
2. Question Your “Shoulds”
When you think about the things you “should” do, it might leave you feeling unmotivated and overwhelmed. For example, if you say to yourself, “I should go for a run this evening,” and then you don’t end up doing it, how do you think you will feel? Chances are, you will struggle with some level of guilt. This can snowball into not feeling good about yourself and questioning how much that you value yourself and your self-worth.
Instead, fill your life with things that you “will” do. The word “will” implies that it is more of a promise and a commitment, rather than a burden. Saying “I will run a mile this evening” is much more motivating and allows you to prove exactly who you are and what you can do.
Anything is possible when you have a path, a plan, and a desire to take action. ― Dean Graziosi
3. Don’t Worry About the Acceptance of Others
It seems all too natural to worry about what other people think of us. Social media can make things even worse. If you find yourself constantly “looking for likes” or some kind of validation from friends, family, or even strangers, you are looking at your self-worth in the wrong place by looking through someone else’s lens and standards.
It can be hard to give up this habit. Everyone wants to be accepted. But, you won’t find what you are worth in the opinions of others. You have the power to see yourself for how great you really are. When you are able to internalize this power and recognize your true value and self-worth, you won’t put so much emphasis on what others think of you. You will get to know who you are, what you are really worth, and you can be confident in that.
4. Let Yourself Off The Hook
Many times, people cannot see their true self-worth because they are holding on to past guilt. Almost everyone has regrets. Whether you did something when you were young that you should not have, or perhaps you wronged someone in some way, the past is the past.
You need to learn to forgive yourself and let yourself off the hook. By holding onto that guilt, you will never be able to see what you are really worth. It will feel like a ball and chain holding you back. But, you have the key to break free, if you just give yourself the chance. If you would be willing to show someone else forgiveness and acceptance for their wrongdoings, you owe it to yourself to do the same. Give yourself a break.
5. Look at Your Gifts
If you are still having a hard time understanding your self-worth, take a look at your natural skills. Everyone has certain gifts in life. Your talents are going to be different from someone else’s – that’s what makes the world work!
Think about a few things that you are really good at. Or, something that you really enjoy doing. Go even further by creating a list of your talents and skills. They don’t need to be huge. In fact, writing a list of several “little things” can make you see just how important and valuable that you are. Take a look at that list whenever you are feeling down or devalued, and practice those talents and skills as often as possible.
By keeping these skills and talents of yours in mind, you can start to celebrate your self-worth. When you have a better understanding of your real value, you are more likely to prioritize other things like self-care, self-esteem and self belief. Each of which are different, but they are all connected in some way. But, it starts with knowing your self-worth. And, chances are, it is much more than you might think.
6 Signs Of A Strong Friendship
There is nothing quite like a strong friendship. Having someone that you can truly count on for anything and everything can completely change the way you think and feel. Unfortunately, far too often in today’s society, we seem to focus more on how many friends we have.
Or, worse, how many acquaintances we can keep in touch with via social media. But, having a true, strong friendship is something that cannot be replaced or replicated with lukewarm substitutes.
Are you already thinking about someone in your life who fits that description? Or, are you wondering if you truly have a strong friendship with one (or more) of the people who are closest to you?
While every friendly relationship is different and unique, there are some common factors associated with a strong bond and true friendship. Let’s take a look at a few of them so you can feel even more confident in your close friendships, and grow even deeper with the people in your life who truly matter.
1. Communication is Always a Priority
It is easy to talk to your friends when everything in your life is on track. Sharing laughs, light conversation, and exchanging stories are all important parts of a healthy friendship.
But, a strong friendship goes deeper. It allows you to communicate with that person, no matter what. That includes telling them about your struggles or anything you might be going through. It also includes communicating effectively when you are not getting along.
Through proper communication, especially when things are hard, you will build trust within that relationship. Going through difficult things together will make you stronger individuals, and stronger friends.
2. You Know You Are Equals
Almost everyone has known at least one person in their lives who seems to think they’re “better” than everyone else.
Strong friendships need to be based on equality. You and your friend should always be on the same playing field when it comes to who you are and how you are living your life. If you embrace your differences and do not see one as superior, you can take comfort in knowing your friendship is sincere.
Even the best of friends clash from time to time. You might have similar personalities, but no two people are exactly alike.
But, if you can still show your friend respect (and receive it from them) even in times of turmoil, your friendship will be stronger than any disagreement you might have. When someone chooses to respect you even when they are upset with you, it shows that they value your relationship more than their pride.
4. You Can Be Yourself
Do you ever feel like you have to put on a show for other people? Or, are you afraid to let your true personality shine through when you are in certain crowds?
A strong friendship is one that allows you to be yourself. If there is someone in your life who truly likes you for who you are, hold onto that friendship tightly! Most people spend far too much time pretending, whether it’s online or in-person. Someone who loves your quirks and uniqueness is someone who loves you, as a person.
Honesty is also a huge part of being yourself, and a huge part of a strong friendship. Friendships should be based on trust, and that starts with being honest. Telling the truth about how you feel and what you think is important. If your friend actively listens, appreciates, and comments on that truth, you can take comfort in knowing how secure your relationship is.
5. You Experience Joy
While a true friend should be there for you during hard times, the bulk of your relationship should be joyful and fun! Again, think about that person in your life who makes you smile. Is there someone who you are always happy to be around? Does thinking about your friendship cause your heart to race?
Strong friendships should absolutely be joyful. You should find yourself laughing a lot, and being completely at ease with one another. That person may be the first one you think of when you want to experience something new or go somewhere different, just because you know that you will have more fun with them around.
6. You Respect Boundaries
No matter how great your friendship is, no two people can be together 24/7. A great friend will understand that and respect your boundaries. Alternatively, they might be going through something that they are not ready to talk about. If you can respect those boundaries, it shows them how much faith you have in your friendship.
Many people are too quick to think the term “boundaries” as being negative. But, boundaries are completely healthy and necessary in a strong relationship of any kind. Having someone in your life who respects those boundaries understands what it takes to build upon that strength.
Having a strong friendship – even just one – can add so much to your life. Take a look at your current friendships. Is there one that stands out to you with these characteristics? If so, do what you can to continue to build and grow that strength, and make sure that friend knows how important they are to you on a regular basis.
6 Things To Remember When You Think That You’re Not Good Enough
Have you ever had moments where you feel completely inadequate? Maybe a specific situation comes up and you think there is no way that you would ever be good enough to do what is needed. Or, maybe you feel that way all the time and you can’t seem to get past it.
Thinking that you are not good enough and having low self-esteem tend to go hand-in-hand, but they are slightly different.
Thankfully, you can work on both of them by changing your thinking habits and banishing some of that negative self-talk from your mindset. Whether you think you are not good enough in certain situations or you have a hard time believing that you are good enough for almost anything, it doesn’t have to be that way forever.
Let’s look at a few things you should always keep in mind when those thoughts come in, and how you can start to convince yourself of your true worth.
1. You Are Not Alone
Thinking that you are not good enough can cause a lonely existence. You might not want to put your burdens on others, so you don’t talk about it. You might also think that everyone else is perfectly happy with who they are, and are confident in everything that they do.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
The reality is, you never know what other people are fully thinking/feeling. What you can count on, though, is that there are so many others who feel just like you, and are constantly wondering if they are “enough”. Knowing that you are not alone can help you to work through your feelings without feeling so isolated.
2. You Have Your Own Skills
A common reason why people tend to think they are not good enough is because they don’t have a specific talent or skill that someone else has. But you probably have something that person doesn’t, too.
Everyone has their own abilities and things that make them unique. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have, keep your mind on your talents and what makes you special.
“If you want to make a permanent change, stop focusing on the size of your problems and start focusing on the size of you!” – T. Harv Eker
3. You Can’t Be Perfect
Perfection is a fruitless thing to chase. Many people who question their self-worth do so because they are perfectionists.
But, if you set such a high standard for yourself, you will always be disappointed. Perfection doesn’t exist, and while you can strive to be your best, it is important to understand human error and limits. That doesn’t mean the things you do are some how “less” than great. But, striving for perfection is something that can make you feel inadequate.
4. You Are Worthy of Loving Yourself
Love tends to be the answer for so many things, including any pain or turmoil that you might be going through. Thinking that you are not good enough is an easy way to cause yourself sadness and pain. Those thoughts can quickly snowball and you might start to think about more negative things about yourself.
Instead of fueling those negative thoughts, choose love. Love is like a permanent band-aid for the pain that you are going through. It is a great way to comfort yourself, provide reassurance, and get a clearer picture of who you really are and all of the wonderful things that you can offer the world. By choosing self-love, you can start to see yourself in a more positive light, and push those negative thoughts away.
“We must fall in love with ourselves. I don’t like myself. I’m crazy about myself.” – Mae West
5. Mistakes Can Be a Good Thing
Do you ever find yourself feeling especially inadequate when you “fail”? While that is not uncommon, that word should really be removed from your vocabulary.
Everyone “fails” at times, because again, perfection is not attainable. When you start to consider anything less than perfection to be a failure, it is easy to beat yourself up and think that you will never amount to the things that you truly want.
But, when you start to view your failures and mistakes as good things and stepping stones, you can completely shift your perspective and realize that not only are you good enough, but you are also resilient and strong. Some of the biggest “failures” in history went on to be the most successful people because they learned from their mistakes. They looked at the things that went wrong and considered how they could change them.
It is important to use your mistakes as a way to learn and grow. When you are able to do that, you will find a greater sense of fulfillment when things finally come together and you get it “right”.
“I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordon
6. Gratitude Goes a Long Way
It might not always feel easy to accept and be grateful for who you are. But, it is incredibly important. Instead of thinking about the things you don’t have or areas where you are not “good enough”, choose to actively think about and pursue the positive. Focus on what you are grateful for. The more that you do that, the easier it will be to banish those thoughts of doubt and insecurity. I like to start every day by using my journal and begin by writing down three things that I am grateful for.
“Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” — Melody Beattie
Once you really start to think about it, you will find that you have more to be grateful for than you may have initially realized, and that way of thinking can help you to establish healthier, more positive thoughts about yourself that will last a lifetime.